In this computer-dominated era, it seems that humans treat other humans as computers. But unlike computers, humans have feelings and our time is precious.
Daily interactions with one another have become more abrupt and our patience has worn thin. But can we really expect people to be like computers, and offer instant satisfaction?
With family and friends aside, what about strangers? It seems as if we interact more with strangers than acquaintances these days. These strangers are also affected by our shortcomings and our inability to tolerate one another. Sometimes we speak before we act, spitting our thoughts out to the world before processing them. And that’s a problem.
Make an effort to consider how others’ time is important. Emails and phone calls take no longer to respond than the time it takes to reheat your leftovers. This can be done simultaneously and you won’t waste any time doing so. Communication is the key to making the world work, so why not embrace it and communicate effectively?
Appointments are important. Doctor, dentist, interview and nail appointments are all important for one reason: you’re taking up someone else’s time. By paying for the service or appointment, you are letting the provider know that they are worth your time, not the other way around. Simply not showing up to an appointment is pretty much a slap in the face.
Appreciate others’ time and you will probably be happier. Not that you have to be happy-go-lucky every minute of the day, but smiles are contagious and others will appreciate your kindness.
There are days when we can no longer tolerate the general population, and we focus on what’s next instead of living in the moment. Life can become increasingly worse with stress induced sickness and relationship issues.
The solution seems simple. Just stop and disconnect from technology for five minutes. Be in the moment physically and mentally. And when it comes down to it, stick to the golden rule and treat others the way you want to be treated. Maybe the world will be a better place.
